Love is blind, a famous saying that proves true all too often. We find a guy that woos us and sweeps us off our feet. We fall head over heels for him and would do anything for him. He is kind, generous, loving, and all-around has a great personality.
But while that is all well and good, we fail to realize that personality may not be the real him.
Many people will put up a front and wear a mask for one reason or another, and sometimes this can lead to problems as the real them behind the mask is not the person we fell in love with.
If this is the case, if the real guy hiding behind the facade is not the man that charmed us and made us fall in love, then there might be signs of an abusive boyfriend. If your boyfriend is abusive, there are often tell-tale signs that will warn you of this possibility.
Signs Of An Abusive Boyfriend-Its True Love Is Blind
1 – Does your boyfriend often get jealous?
Jealousy is often overlooked in the early stages of a relationship. We think he cares for us and often thinks it is kind of cute how he gets jealous. But this can be a sign that he might be a bit too possessive, leading to abuse.
2 – Does he try to micromanage you?
Signs of an abusive boyfriend also include trying to dominate you and make you obey him. If he tries to determine what you wear or looks like, it can be a red flag that he is an abusive man.
3 – Has he ever verbally abused you?
We all get into fights and say nasty things, that is to be expected. But is it a common occurrence? Does he belittle you in front of others, or for no reason?