The last straw to finalize divorce proceedings in a marriage is when adultery is committed. I would say the hurt is unbearable for the loving partner who has been betrayed.
Innocent Parties like the children and family members automatically become involved to take their share of the heartache when a marriage collapses.
Many couples manage to salvage what is left of their relationship and carry on regardless of fighting a lost cause. It is not easy to put your feelings and emotions on hold.
Passion Ration Cited In Divorce
Emotions are a powerful force that comes back with a vengeance filling you with anger and, in some cases, hate.
All the respect and trust has gone leaving that once happy relationship a farce. They say you forgive and forget. Sorry for having none of it, forgive, yes forget no, mental scarring does not heal.
So much suffering is caused by a one-night stand or affairs that generally do not last long after the guilty party has lost everything. Ask your self is it worth it.
I do not condone such behavior where a man or woman strays outside the Marital Home to seek pleasure; only in some cases, there are reasons why partners go down this road seeking comfort elsewhere.
Maybe the adulterer is not the guilty one. What if the spouse decides to ration the passion in the bedroom, leaving the partner no choice but to have their needs fulfilled outside the marriage.
You need to think twice before making a wrong decision about when you want to play or not play ball in the bedroom. Excuse the pun, but the ball is in your court to put back the missing link causing your marriage and partner to suffer.
They say true love never runs smooth, and if that being the case, then for a bit of happiness, give me the rough with the smooth any day.
If you have a problem regarding being bored in the bedroom, talk it over with your partner.
Rekindling a relationship is made a lot easier if both parties participate in understanding why such actions were taken in the first place. Talking it through may help you both realize that the marriage is worth saving.
Counseling is out there for couples struggling to come to terms with the fact the marriage is over. Consider the children’s feelings throughout any divorce proceedings; they will need time to adapt to having their whole life turned around.
Abide by your marriage vows, if out of spite you decide to sleep alone in the master bedroom, then accept the fact that the guilty party is the Betrayer, not the Strayer.